I was born in a little town called Holly Springs, in Mississippi. I was adopted by Wilson and Olivia Sanderson, who were my Aunt and Uncle. I want dedicate my work to my Parents, I wish they were here to enjoy this time. A little about my parents. My mom was a Nurse, Hairdresser, mid-wife, and caregiver; She was the best mother any child could have. I never understood many of the lessons she taught me. Until I left home to joined the NAVY, and later started my own family. She was a strong individual that help bring kids in to this world and sat with the elderly as they left this world. She once told me that in everyone life there will be a time that they could use a helping hand, and if you… refuse to lend a hand; Than what is your worth? She was an in creditable lady. I LOVE YOU MOMMY.My dad was a rock, he believed in family. I watch him take care of his father, and his sister until their passing. One Memorial day weekend I was home at his request, to help him around the house. He had gotten up in aged and couldn't do much. One evening as we sat talking, he leaned over and said, "How do you see me?" I said, "you are my dad, you're the only father I've ever known and I'm proud to be called your son. I love you." He looked at me and said, I love you too. Then he said, if you ever tell anyone I said that I'll deny it. That was the only time he ever said he loved me, that fall he pasted. I'm glad I got the chance to have him as my father, and if I can be just a bit of the man he was than he did a great job with me, Thank you Daddy..I live in Cape Cod Ma. with my fianc�, she's a great lady. She is my strength, my rib. I want to thank my beautiful partner, my friend, my lady June for giving me the opportunity to live in her life. Living in Cape Cod has been an interesting one. I know it was God's plan that I move here to learn and understand him better. I have met some wonderful friends here on the Cape and since living here I have reunited with my brother. Whom has been a missing part of my life. I love him dearly. To My Brother Robin, I also dedicate this book and Thank you for your input.I don't call myself a relationship experts, but after counseling friends on relationship they were involved in. One of them said your advise ids pretty good, you should put it on paper. So I start writing, and just maybe these words will help others as they did my friends. Writing this book has even helped me understand things that I had taken for granted in my own relationship... I am the father of three great kids. Ricky, a aspiring Musician. I can't wait to hear and see him in a music video one day soon. Rachel, my beautiful daughter and a Mother herself of my precious granddaughter Taniyah, and last my baby boy Ryan. I have experienced the ups and downs of life but have learn through my faith in God I am able to do all things through Christ. My motto in Life is I can do all, No weapon formed, That I may have Life and that more abundantly.