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How to Make Someone Fall in Love with You in 90 Minutes or Less

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ISBN-10: 0761151621

ISBN-13: 9780761151623

Edition: 2009

Authors: Nicholas Boothman

List price: $11.95
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Building on the power of first impressions, Nicholas Boothman shows how to find and meet the love of your life--and have that person fall in love with you-- in a mere 90 minutes, or approximately the time it takes to have a first dinner date. Now in paperback, this follow-up to his bestselling "How to Make Someone Like You in 90 seconds or Less" is updated throughout with information on Internet dating, bringing together all of Mr Boothman's considerable interpersonal skills to the problem of finding lasting love, fast. And it works: The feedback Boothman has received from a number of his clients begins, "Please come to my wedding...." Starting with a series of revealing self-assessment test that show how to find your Matched Opposite (a person who makes you feel complete). here is how to make a fabulous first impression, with tips on everything from attitude to accessories; how to be charming, not alarming; introductions, opening lines, and the 1-2-3 mantra of never hesetating. There are techniques for starting and maintaining conversation and for finding "Me Too" moments, plus the importance of flirting, incidental touching, rules of self-disclosure, and more. Real-life examples and analyses of actual conversations show the method at work.
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Book details

List price: $11.95
Copyright year: 2009
Publisher: Workman Publishing Company, Incorporated
Publication date: 1/1/2009
Binding: Paperback
Pages: 330
Size: 5.00" wide x 7.00" long x 1.00" tall
Weight: 0.550
Language: English

Nicholas Boothman is a former fashion and advertising photographer of international renown. He became aware that his work for clients such as AT&T and Revlon depended on establishing instant rapport with his subjects. Determined to look deeper into the ways that people connect with each other, he put his cameras aside and earned a license as a Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). Today, he shares his findings with audiences around the world giving keynote speeches, conducting seminars and entertaining his audiences with concrete communication tools. He has written many books about building instant rapport with people. His latest book is entitled, Convince Them in 90 Seconds: Make Instant Connections that Pay Off in Business and in Life.

Introduction who says you can't hurry love?
Get Ready
What is love?
The architecture of love
Love by Chance
Love by design
There's someone for everyone
Who will complete you?
The principle of completion
Key feelings-the forever component
Matched opposites
Know yourself first
Mutual enthusiasm
Getting out there
The art of socializing
The two key rules
Socializing action plan
Excuses, excuses
There's no rejection, only selection
Finding your matched opposite online
The players
Targeting the right sites
Creating a captivating profile
The pros and cons
E-mail dos and don'ts
The meeting
Get Set
A fabulous first impression
It's all about attitude
Actions speak louder than words
Standing tall, feeling terrific
Poise, pace, and posture
The seven keys to dressing well
Hello, how are you, how do you do?
Using body language to build trust
Eye contact, a smile, and an open stance
Engineering introductions
Introducing yourself
Free information
Approaching strangers
For the brave, the direct approach
Soft questions and influential suggestions
The indirect approach
Asking for a date
Go!
Conversation and chemistry
Good questions and attentive listening
Looking for "me too" triggers
Getting in synch-matching and mirroring
Hunting for common ground
The art of flirting
Promise-withdraw
The principle of scarcity
Opening lines
Public, social, and private flirting
Sexual innuendo
Sensory preferences
Creating intimacy
Sharing yourself through self-disclosure
Low-, medium-, and high-risk revelations
Conversational road map
Incidental touching
Knowing when to put on the brakes
Getting to love
Letting go, having faith
You don't have to say "I love you" right away
The importance of romance
Putting it all together
Workbook: Your Imagination Station
Epilogue: It all begins with you