Intimacy after Infidelity How to Rebuild and Affair-Proof Your Marriage

ISBN-10: 1572244615

ISBN-13: 9781572244610

Edition: 2006

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While trying to cope with the pain of knowing that their partners have cheated, victims of infidelity have to wrestle with two big questions: whether to stay in the relationship and, if they do stay, how to best prevent experiencing this kind of hurt again. In this book, two relationship experts offer readers a new way of understanding the causes and types of infidelity and innovative new ways to "affair-proof" recovered or new relationships. The book begins with an overview of the phenomenon of infidelity and the way a long-term relationship develops over time. The book develops a three-type model of intimacy and infidelity and analyzes each. The authors include a discussion of how to evaluate a relationship for infidelity risks and how to choose a partner that is less likely to be unfaithful.
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List price: $18.95
Copyright year: 2006
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
Publication date: 11/1/2006
Binding: Paperback
Pages: 208
Size: 6.00" wide x 9.25" long x 0.50" tall
Weight: 0.638
Language: English

STEVEN SOLOMON is the school social worker for the Toronto District School Board's Human Sexuality Program. He provides counselling for students who are bullied because of their sexuality and delivers anti-homophobia workshops for K-12 students. In 2012 he was awarded a TDSB Excellence Award, in part for his work helping students to establish Gay-Straight Alliances in schools.

Steven D. Solomon, PhD, is a licensed clinical psychologist who specializes in couples therapy. He has been in private practice in La Jolla, CA, for more than twenty years. He is a founding director of the Relationship Institute and past president of the San Diego Psychological Association, the United Jewish Federation of San Diego County, and Hillel of San Diego. He and his wife, Esther, have been married for twenty-one years and are the very proud parents of their son, Lewis.

Introduction: The shock of discovery
Now what do I do?
Companions on this journey: couples who have been there
The stages of love: why he betrayed you when he did
The three intimacies: the building blocks of a relationship
Self-intimacy: the bedrock of the relationship
Conflict intimacy: the cornerstone of relationship resiliency
Affection intimacy: the foundation of your relationship
The three infidelities: understanding what made your partner stray
Infidelity of fear: running away from old pain
Infidelity of loneliness: running toward a sense of awakening
Infidelity of anger: running for revenge
Healing your relationship: instructions for both of you
Loving with security: making your relationship infidelity-safe
The emotional self-awareness (esa) exercise
The initiator-inquirer (I-to-I) exercise guidelines
The I-to-I maturity goals handout
A brief list of emotions
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