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Breaking Free How Chains from Childhood Keep Us from What We Want

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ISBN-10: 1600376452

ISBN-13: 9781600376450

Edition: N/A

Authors: Sheldon H. Kardener, Monika Olofsson Kardener

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List price: $18.95
Publisher: Morgan James Publishing
Publication date: 10/1/2009
Binding: Paperback
Pages: 216
Size: 6.06" wide x 9.10" long x 0.56" tall
Weight: 0.682
Language: English

Sheldon H. Kardener, MD graduated with a Bachelor of Science in mechanical engineering and subsequently a doctorate from the School of Medicine, with honors, at Wayne State University. After completing a psychiatric residency at the University of California at Los Angeles, he joined the faculty where he is now a Clinical Professor of Psychiatry. He has been a Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association, Fellow of the American Society of Clinical Hypnosis, and is Board Certified in Psychiatry and Neurology. For over forty years, he has written extensively, practiced psychodynamic psychotherapy - with a special interest in couples therapy - taught mental health professionals,…    

Acknowledgements
Introduction
In the Beginning
Technologies and Theories
The Impact of Deprivation
Good Enough Will Do
Studying Infants and Mothers
Pruning the Neuronal Tree
Connecting Is a Must
Being Ignored Is Devastating
The Language of Connection
Memory
The Narrative
The Child and Adult States
Description and Characteristics of Each State
Confirmation versus Validation
Analogue versus Binary Thinking
Autonomy versus Immature Dependence
Vulnerability versus Helplessness
Choice, Competency, Resources
Alone versus Lonely
Empathy versus Sympathy
Desire versus Desperation
Envy versus Jealousy
Want versus Need
The Path of Growth
The Child/Adult States in Action
The Uniqueness of Learning as a Child
Maintaining Predictability
On Prejudice
The Stockholm Syndrome
The Power of Choice
Wanting and Having
Change
Path to Psychological Health
Chart of Healthy Progression
No Initial Mistakes
Recriminations
Authentic or Sincere?
Breaking Free
A Linear Scale
The Exodus
Does Change Take Time?
Change Reflects Empowerment
Repression, Suppression, and Sublimation
Talking Out or Acting Out
The Blame Game Cop-Out
When Then Is Now and Here Is There
Being and Doing
The Paradox of Conflict
Choosing our Mates
Moth to Flame
It's Just with Him/Her
The Dangerous, Desired Familiar
Finding Our Equal Fragment
Changing for Oneself
Hillel's Three Questions
When Different Is the Same
Splitting the Ambivalence
No Negative Feelings
Life's Laboratory
The Goal of the Adult
It Takes so much Work-Is it Worth It?
The Wedding Picture
Courage to Change
Patterns of Relating
Memetics
An Overview of Psychotherapy
Psychotherapy-A Unique Triad
The Necessity of Theory
Accepting Loss
Four Essential Components
Psychoanalysis
The Eclectic Loop
Dynamic Formulation
Breaking the Eclectic Loop
Selected Psychotherapy Topics
Ultra-Brief Therapy
Psycho pharmacology
Hypnosis
Behavior Leads, Feelings Follow
The Importance of Application
Four Stages in Therapy
Communication: Artistic or Autistic
A Communication Guide
A Guide for Listening
Fairy Tales
Simple Not Simplistic
Elements Contained in All Therapies
Chaos Theory
Anger, Guilt, and Projective Identification
Anger
Guilt
Projective Identification
Integration
Clinical Vignettes
Initials Tell Ail
The Case of the Clothes Thief
The Man who would Be Boss
The Bed as Battleground
Sexual Symptoms
The Husband Who Wasn't
Synopsis
References
Index
About The Authors