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| About the Second Edition | |
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| Foreword to the Second Edition: Things My Teachers Never Mentioned | |
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| Foreword to the 1993 Edition | |
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| Questioning Myths, Taboos, Secrets, and Uncomfortable Topics | |
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| Basic Myths About the Psychotherapist | |
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| The Nature and Reality of Myths, Taboos, Secrets, and Uncomfortable Topics | |
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| The Process of Questioning Myths, Taboos, Secrets, and Uncomfortable Topics | |
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| The Process of Exploration, Discovery, and Learning | |
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| Therapists' Sexual Arousals, Attractions, and Fantasies: An Example of a Topic That Isn't There | |
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| Another Myth | |
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| Guilt by Association | |
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| Keeping Dirty Laundry Private | |
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| "Sensitive Information" About Patients but Not About Therapists | |
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| Angry, Greedy, Powerful Women and Innocent, Virtuous, Vulnerable Men | |
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| Higher Premiums | |
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| "Victimized" by Exclusion? | |
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| Are Sexual Feelings Harder to Talk About Than Actual Sexual Involvement? | |
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| Creating Conditions for Learning | |
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| Safety | |
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| Understanding the Task | |
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| Openness | |
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| Respect | |
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| Encouragement | |
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| Privacy | |
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| Acceptance | |
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| Sensitivity | |
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| Frankness | |
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| Support | |
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| Questions We'd Rather Avoid: A Self-Assessment | |
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| Questions | |
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| Possible Clues to Taboo Topics and Uncomfortable Feelings | |
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| Therapy Adrift | |
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| Repetitive Therapy | |
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| The Discrepant Record | |
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| The Dehumanized Client | |
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| The Dehumanized Therapist | |
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| Avoidance | |
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| Theory-Obliterated Therapy | |
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| The Client-Friend | |
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| Obsession | |
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| Interesting Slips and Meaningful Mistakes | |
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| Fantasies, Dreams, Daydreams, and Other Imaginings | |
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| Undue Special Treatment | |
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| Isolation of the Client | |
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| Isolation of the Therapist | |
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| Creating a Secret | |
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| Seeking Repeated Reassurance From Colleagues | |
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| Boredom and Drowsiness as Protective Reactions | |
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| Passages and Scenarios for Exploration | |
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| Beginning and Ending the Session | |
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| Initial Appointment | |
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| The Movie | |
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| The New Client | |
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| The Therapist's Fear of Showing Feeling: A Passage From Clara Thompson | |
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| The Perfect Therapist | |
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| Cognitive-Behavioral Approach to "Ugly": A Passage From Ellen Toby Klass and Joann Paley Galst | |
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| The Two-Person Practice | |
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| The Request | |
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| Telling a Client to Undress During a Therapy Session: A Passage From Milton Erickson | |
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| Staffing Patterns | |
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| A Client's Anger at a Therapist's Voyeurism: A Passage From Laura Brown | |
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| The Requirement | |
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| Sounds | |
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| Are Beliefs About Race and Sex Related? A Passage From Leon Williams | |
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| A Request for Help | |
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| The Media and the Message | |
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| Beatings, Grief, Love, and Sex: A Passage From Fritz Perls | |
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| What You Enjoy | |
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| A Client in Crisis | |
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| A Patient's Difficulties Talking About Sexual Fantasies: A Passage From Mardi Horowitz | |
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| The New Client | |
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| The Surprise Date | |
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| A Voyeuristic Response to an Incest Survivor: A Passage From Christine Courtois | |
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| Adjunctive Therapy | |
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| The Note | |
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| Eyes Open | |
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| No More | |
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| Your Income | |
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| Leaving on Vacation | |
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| Bright, Funny, Articulate, and Likable | |
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| Normal | |
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| Fantasizing Love and Marriage With a Patient: A Passage From Harold Searles | |
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| Saved! | |
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| The Security Guard | |
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| The Partner | |
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| A Therapist Unaware of the Client's Attraction: A Passage From Marny Hall | |
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| Diagnosis | |
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| Size | |
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| Recordings and Photographs | |
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| A Different Direction | |
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| Research Data | |
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| The Right Stuff | |
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| The Party | |
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| Misusing the Borderline Diagnosis: A Passage From David Reiser and Hanna Levenson | |
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| A Strong Reaction | |
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| Medication | |
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| A Client Becomes Aroused When Her Therapist Comes to Her Home: A Passage From Helen Block Lewis | |
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| Descriptions | |
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| A Suicidal Client | |
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| The Newspaper | |
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| Instructing a Client to Imagine Her Breasts Tingling: A Passage From Theodore Barber | |
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| Feeling Safe | |
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| Pleasing a Husband | |
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| Confronting an Impasse: What Do We Do When We Don't Know What to Do? | |
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| Consulting | |
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| Competence | |
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| Charting | |
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| Uncharacteristic Behaviors | |
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| Advances in Theory, Research, and Practice | |
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| Looking for Logical Flaws | |
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| The Legal and Ethical Framework | |
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| Continued Questioning | |
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| "Therapists' Anger, Hate, Fear, and Sexual Feelings: National Survey of Therapist Responses, Client Characteristics, Critical Events, Formal Complaints, and Training" | |
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| Index | |
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| About the Authors | |