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Dance of Connection How to Talk to Someone When You're Mad, Hurt, Scared, Frustrated, Insulted, Betrayed, or Desperate

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ISBN-10: 006095616X

ISBN-13: 9780060956165

Edition: N/A

Authors: Harriet Lerner, Harriet G. Lerner

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In her most affirming and life-changing book yet, Dr. Harriet Lerner teaches us how to restore love and connection with the people who matter the most. In The Dance of Connection we learn what to say (and not say) when: We need an apology, and the person who has harmed us won't apologize or be accountable. We don't know how to take a conversation to the next level when we feel desperate. We feel worn down by the other person's criticism, negativity, or irresponsible behavior. We have been rejected or cut off, and the other person won't show up for the conversation. We are struggling with staying or leaving, and we don't know our "bottom line." We are convinced that we've tried…    
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Book details

List price: $17.99
Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers
Publication date: 8/6/2002
Binding: Paperback
Pages: 272
Size: 5.31" wide x 8.00" long x 0.61" tall
Weight: 0.638
Language: English

Well-known psychotherapist Dr. Harriet Learner has helped millions of women with relationship problems. Women around the world have benefited from Lerner's guidance in the bestselling series Dance of Anger, Dance of Intimacy, Dance of Deception. In her monthly column, Good Advice, which appears in New Woman magazine, the author gives practical answers to the big and little questions of life. In Life Preservers: Staying Afloat in Love and Life (1996) the reader who has read too many self-help books and is still not perfect is given a clear plan of action to cut through confusion. Other titles by Lerner include Women in Therapy: Devaluation, Anger, Aggression, Depression, Self-Sacrifice,…    

Acknowledgments
Prologue: Back to the Sandbox
Finding Your Voice
Voice Lessons from My Father
Our First Family: Where We Learned (Not) to Speak
Should You Share Vulnerability?
In Praise of Pretending
Putting Our Parents in the Hot Seat
Love Can Make You Stupid
Marriage: Where's Your Bottom Line?
"I Can't Live with This!" Voicing the Ultimate in Marriage
Warming Things Up
Silent Men/Angry Women
Criticism Is Hard to Take
An Apology? Don't Hold Your Breath
Complaining and Negativity: When You Can't Listen Another Minute
The Sounds of Silence: Finding a Voice When You're Rejected and Cut Off
Epilogue: To Thine Own Self Be True
Notes
Index