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| Becoming a Modern-Day Seductress or Seducer | |
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| Redefining Seduction | |
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| A Thousand Years of Good Intent | |
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| How Do You Tell the "Good" From the "Bad"? | |
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| Nonsexual Seduction: The Good, the Bad, and the Downright Ugly | |
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| Something to Which We Can All Relate: Food | |
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| Seducers on Two Legs | |
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| Sexual Seduction: The Sublime and the Squalid | |
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| Delicious Seduction: A Little Slice of Heaven | |
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| Malicious Seduction: Devil on a Blue Bike | |
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| There's No Such Thing As a One-Night Stand: Seduction Has Lasting Effects | |
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| General Seductiveness: The Elements of Allure | |
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| Ingredients to Cast a Seductive Spell | |
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| Goal Setting: The Proactive Approach to Seduction | |
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| Whose Life Is It, Anyway? | |
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| Maybe S/he's Born with It...But Probably Not | |
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| Classic Seductresses: Geishas and Courtesans | |
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| Bond...James Bond: Seducer Extraordinaire | |
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| And Now, Back to Reality: What About You? | |
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| Short-Term Goals: The First Person You Must Seduce Is Yourself | |
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| Long-Term Goals: Attracting Who You Want | |
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| You Can Get There From Here: Putting Your Best Self Forward All the Time | |
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| Physical Attraction: Looking Seductive | |
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| Is Your Presence a Sensual Delight or a Sensory Assault? | |
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| Julia: Facing the Truth | |
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| Harold: Right Hair, Right Now | |
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| Grooming and Hygiene | |
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| Fitness and Health | |
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| It's Better than You Think: Adjusting Your Body Image | |
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| Even Cindy Crawford Doesn't Look Like Cindy Crawford | |
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| Chiseled or Voluptuous? Achieving Your Personal Best Physique | |
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| It's Not How You Look; It's How You Feel | |
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| Do What Makes You Feel Sexy and Vibrant | |
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| Doing a Double Take | |
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| You Wear It Well | |
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| What the Sirens Knew | |
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| Knowing Your Style Requires Knowing Yourself | |
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| Intellectual Magnetism: Your Brain Is the Most Erogenous Part of Your Body | |
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| What Makes You Sexy? Your Thoughts | |
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| Your Intellectual Presence | |
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| Curiosity Livened Up the Cat | |
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| A World of Things to Be Curious About | |
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| Get Current | |
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| Cultural Seduction | |
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| Outside the Nine to Five | |
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| The Freewheeling (or Sky Diving or Sailing or Rock Climbing) New You | |
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| Soul Searching in Seoul | |
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| Being Genius Enough to Admit to Ignorance | |
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| Emotional Seductiveness: Creating Those Warm, Fuzzy Feelings | |
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| What's Your Compassion Quotient? | |
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| Feelings...Nothing More Than Feelings | |
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| Learning to Listen: Using Your Ears and Your Heart | |
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| Fools Rush In, But Seductive People Listen | |
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| Learning How to "Resonate" with Someone | |
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| Laughter Is the Best Medicine (and the Best Aphrodisiac to Boot) | |
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| To Make Others Like You, Like Them | |
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| Emotional Seductiveness Creates a Win-Win Situation | |
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| Spirit or Essence: All the Elements of Seductiveness...and More | |
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| What Color Is Your Aura? | |
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| Spirit, Essence, or Whatever You Want to Call It: It's What Makes You You | |
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| Self-Confidence: Where Does It Come From? | |
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| Essential Elements: Character and Intent | |
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| Self-Worth: The Reflection of Your Essence | |
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| Attracting Dates: Casting Your Spell | |
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| The Ultimate Seductress: A Man's Perspective | |
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| His Description of a Sexy Woman | |
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| The Real Deal | |
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| "Drop-Dead Gorgeous" Defined | |
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| Seductive Is As Seductive Does | |
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| Focus, Focus, Focus! | |
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| A Confidante...or the Town Tattler? | |
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| The Spirit of the Enchantress...Making It or Breaking It Without Lifting a Finger | |
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| The Ultimate Seducer: A Woman's Perspective | |
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| The Most Important Game You May Ever Play | |
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| Focus Makes Her Heart Grow Fonder | |
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| Keep Your Eyes on the Prize--Her! | |
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| Making the Present Perfect (and Leaving History in the Classroom) | |
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| Make Her Feel Fascinating | |
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| Forget the "Strong, Silent" Approach--Open Up! | |
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| Cleanliness Is Next to, Well, Her! | |
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| Putting a Damper on the Situation | |
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| Take My Breath Away | |
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| Smoke Gets in Her Nose | |
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| Dangerous Digits | |
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| Romancing the "Little Woman" Ain't What It Used to Be | |
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| Meeting Attractive People: Matching Your Destination with Your Expectation | |
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| Where in the World | |
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| Clubs and Bars: Keep Your Eyes Open, Your Head Clear, and Your Boots On | |
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| Attention Shoppers! There's a Macarena Contest in the Produce Section in 15 Minutes! | |
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| Singles Night at the Local Bookstore/Coffee Bar: Sometimes You Can Tell a Book by Its Cover | |
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| No Matter How Weird It Is, There's Bound to Be a Group for It | |
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| Religious Groups: Who's There to Pray and Who's There to Prey? | |
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| The Internet: Getting Lucky Online | |
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| Personal Ads: Learning to Read Between the Lines | |
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| Dating Services: A Viable Alternative | |
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| What Are Friends For! | |
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| Unexpected Places: It's Not So Much Where You Go As What You Bring | |
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| The Approach: Putting All That Preparation to Work | |
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| Like, What's Your Sign? Probably "Stop!" | |
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| When Silence Is Golden...and When to Break That Silence | |
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| The Talker | |
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| The Observer | |
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| Looking Interested, Not Desperate | |
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| What? Ask Him Out? | |
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| Platonic Pothole or Road to Romance? You Decide | |
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| There Are Friends...and Then There Are Platonic Friends | |
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| Heading Off the Buddy Syndrome at the Outset | |
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| Popping the Question (No, Not That One, Silly! Asking Someone for a Date) | |
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| Romantic Signals: How to Read Them and How to Give Them | |
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| Developing Your "Body Literacy" | |
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| Eye Contact: Magic or Menace? | |
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| Body Talk: Saying It Without Words | |
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| Leaning with Meaning | |
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| Positions the Kama Sutra Never Mentions | |
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| Smile Without Guile | |
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| Eye Gotta Be Me | |
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| Animated Annie, or Wooden Wanda? | |
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| The Proper Use of Props | |
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| Seduction: It's More than Mental--It's Also a Contact Sport | |
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| Flirting: Tickle, Tease, or Torture | |
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| The Flavors of Flirting | |
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| Hope for the Flirt-O-Phobe | |
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| Testing, Testing: One, Two...Wow! | |
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| As God Is My Witness, I Shall Never Flirt Destructively Again! | |
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| Flirting As a Prelude to Passion | |
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| The Anatomy of Seductive Flirting | |
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| The Sweetest Sale You May Ever Make | |
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| A Seductive Guide to "the Big D": The Date | |
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| The Beginning: Getting Off to a Great Start | |
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| Focus on Your Date Instead of Yourself | |
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| Show Up on Time | |
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| Don't Try Too Hard to Impress | |
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| Flattery Will Get You Anywhere--or Nowhere at All | |
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| To Be Interesting, Be Interested | |
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| During the Date: Keeping It Fun (and Seductive!) | |
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| Are We Having Fun Yet? | |
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| There's Fun, and Then There's Fun | |
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| The End? Going Gentle Into That Good Night | |
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| S-E-X: Don't Jump the Gun, or You Might Shoot Yourself in the Foot | |
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| Repeat Performance? | |
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| Or...Polite Exit? | |
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| Rate Your Date | |
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| So...Just What Are Your Gut Feelings? | |
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| Okay, Now Ask Yourself These Questions | |
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| But Enough About You--What About Your Date? | |
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| A Night to Remember | |
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| Should We or Shouldn't We? | |
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| Sex in the '90s and Beyond: A Cautionary Note | |
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| When More Than Your Imagination Is Fertile | |
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| When Lust Hits, Go Slow | |
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| The Wrong Person | |
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| ...Or the Right Person at the Wrong Time? | |
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| So...How Can I Tell If This Is the Right Person? | |
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| Enjoy the Moment, But Don't Forget to Look Ahead | |
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| The Bottom Line: Choose with Care | |
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| Setting the Stage for Seduction | |
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| I Had This Dream About You | |
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| Welcome to Fantasy Island | |
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| Secrets for the Seductress | |
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| Subtlety: Letting Him Fill in the Blanks | |
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| Spontaneity: Being a One-Woman Surprise Party | |
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| If He Likes What He Sees, He'll Want to See More | |
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| Secrets for the Seducer | |
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| Atmosphere Is Everything | |
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| Tell Me More About My Eyes | |
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| Patience, Patience, Patience | |
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| Pre-Game Jitters | |
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| His Fears | |
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| That "Size" Thing | |
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| Performance Anxiety | |
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| Her Fears | |
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| Showing Him Her Physical Flaws for the First Time | |
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| The Big "O"--You've Come a Long Way, Baby | |
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| Shared Fears | |
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| Rejection | |
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| Who Else Is in Here with Us? | |
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| Primal Fears | |
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| Reality Bites Back | |
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| The First Three Times Don't Count | |
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| Take That Fear and... Transform It! | |
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| Tonight's the Night: Lovemaking 101 | |
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| Getting Started: When...and How? | |
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| The Woman Says "When" | |
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| Making the First Move | |
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| Relax! It's Not a Competition | |
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| Easing into the Situation | |
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| Tips for the Sizzling Seductress | |
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| If You'll Be Jane, He Will Be Your Tarzan | |
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| Be a Gentle Teacher | |
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| An Orgasm by Any Other Name | |
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| Let There Be Light | |
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| Adonis Reborn? | |
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| Right Here in the Parking Lot?!? | |
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| The Sweet Seducer: Not Just the Same Old In-And-Out | |
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| Let Her Know She's Beautiful | |
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| Make Her Know You REALLY Want to Please Her | |
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| Always Make Her Feel Safe | |
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| Afterplay | |
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| A Seductive Potpourri: Tips and Tricks to Make the Night Complete | |
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| Seductive Is As Seductive Thinks | |
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| Two Enthusiastic Thumbs Up! | |
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| Your Own Private Mood Enhancers | |
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| A Lair to Lure Your Love | |
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| The Added Seduction of the Unexpected | |
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| Clothes Encounters of the Seductive Kind | |
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| More Props for Your Passion Play | |
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| Kiss Me, Kiss Me, Kiss Me! | |
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| ...And Other Oral Delights | |
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| Seductive Oral-Sex Secrets for Her | |
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| Seductive Oral-Sex Secrets for Him | |
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| I Sing the Body Erotic | |
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| Seduction Is Forever | |
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| There's Got to Be a Morning After | |
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| Got the Morning-After Blues from My Head Down to My Shoes | |
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| Self-Doubt and Insecurities | |
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| Buyer's Remorse | |
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| Encore...or Final Curtain? | |
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| What If Your Cup of Tea Isn't Your Mug of Morning Coffee? | |
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| You Don't Float Your Partner's Boat | |
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| How to Handle It If It Knocked Your Socks Off | |
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| Do Unto Others | |
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| Maintaining the Intrigue: Setting the Stage for Next Time | |
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| Keeping It Intriguing: Understanding Needs Beyond the Bedroom | |
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| The Laws of the Gender Jungle | |
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| Women's Basic Emotional Needs | |
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| Men's Basic Emotional Needs | |
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| Shared Emotional Needs | |
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| You're on a Journey Together, So Don't Forget the Souvenirs | |
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| Adventures Along the Way | |
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| You Fill Up My Senses | |
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| Let's Get Physical | |
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| Keeping It Spicy: Fanning the Flames with Fantasies and Games | |
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| Preventing Fantasy Faux Pas | |
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| Sustaining the Spice with Sexy Play | |
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| The Show-Off | |
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| The Mysterious Blond at the Anytown Grand Hotel | |
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| A Hot Time in the Hot Tub | |
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| Men's Most Powerful Fantasies | |
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| Seeing Double | |
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| The Naked Eye | |
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| You Want to Do It Where? | |
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| Exhibit This! | |
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| Wet and Wild | |
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| Women's Most Powerful Fantasies | |
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| Now You See Me | |
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| Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down | |
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| That's Ms. Dominatrix to You, Buddy | |
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| Having Other Male Partners | |
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| Bisexuality | |
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| Share and Share Alike | |
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| What's Love Got to Do with It? | |
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| When Love Is on the Agenda (Whether You Planned It or Not) | |
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| Just What the Heck Is True Love, Anyway? | |
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| Love Means Never Having to Say You're Static | |
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| In the Beginning: Passionate Love | |
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| As Time Goes By: Mature Love | |
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| So...Where Does Seduction Fit into This? | |
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| Can We Talk About Commitment? | |
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| Seduction Can Be Forever--Make It So! | |
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| Choose to Stay in Love with the Relationship | |
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| Choose to Keep Seducing Your Partner | |
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| Choose to Keep Seducing Yourself | |
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| Let Love and Seduction Feed on Each Other | |
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| Appendices | |
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| Resources | |
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| Books | |
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| Nonfiction | |
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| Fiction | |
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| Instructional Videos | |
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| The Language of Seduction: A Wordplay Glossary | |
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| Steamy Seduction Tales | |
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| Seductresses at Work | |
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| Easy in the Big Easy | |
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| Jersey Girl | |
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| The Apartment | |
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| Seducers' Success Stories | |
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| I'm a Little Tied Up Right Now | |
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| The Wicked Queen | |
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| Pier Pressure | |
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| Index | |