Reconcilable Differences

Name: Reconcilable Differences
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ISBN: 9781572305090

ISBN-10: 1572305096

ISBN-13: 9781572305090

Edition: 2000

Authors: Andrew Christensen, Neil S. Jacobson

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Book details

List price: $18.95
Copyright year: 2000
Publisher: Guilford Publications
Publication date: 5/31/2002
Binding: Paperback
Pages: 332
Size: 6.25" wide x 9.00" long x 0.75" tall
Weight: 1.034



Acknowledgments


Preface



Three Sides to Every Story



The Anatomy of an Argument



"You're Wrong!": Relationship Problems as Faults



"How Can You Be That Way?": Relationship Problems as Incompatibilities



"Can I Give to You Without Losing Me?": Incompatibilities over Love and Power



"I Do but I Don't": Confusing Incompatibilities



"You Know How to Hurt Me": Relationship Problems as Vulnerabilities



A Cure Worse Than the Disease: Relationship Problems as Solutions



From Argument to Acceptance



The Delicate Balance: Acceptance and Change



A Story of Our Own: Acceptance through Understanding



Walking in Your Partner's Shoes: Acceptance through Compassion



Getting Some Perspective on the Conflict: Acceptance through Tolerant Distance



Deliberate Change through Acceptance



The Dilemmas of Deliberate Change



How Good Advice Can Be Bad for Your Relationship: Accepting the Foibles of Rules



Why a New Approach Can Lead to the Same Old Thing: Using Your Own Story to Make Genuine Change



Lost Battles Can Win the War: How Change and Intimacy Can Emerge from Defeat



When Acceptance Is Not Enough



"Don't Do That to Me!": Violence, Verbal Abuse, and Infidelity



Call in the Professionals!: Couple and Individual Therapy



Internet Resources


Bibliography


Index


About the Authors