My Name is Lance D Thompson Jr. I am no doctor, I'm no philosopher, and this is the first book I ever writing. I am just a man with a broken heart and a pen & paper. I personally wrote this book out myself my own thoughts, words and experiences. I had the privilege to have love several times in my life but unfortunately we didn't see eye to eye. I broke hearts of many, but really didn't understand the hurt I put these women through until it happened to me, and for that ladies I'm sorry. My objective in life is to be a leader and not a follower, heal from being a patient to the Doctor and grow from being a player to the coach. Hopefully these various chapters I put together for you can be… utilized as armor to shield you from self destruction of a breakup but promote self construction.