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| Acknowledgments | |
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| Introduction | |
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| Finding and Choosing the Right Bed and Partner | |
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| Hunting and Fishing | |
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| White-Knight Syndrome | |
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| The Eye of the Beholder | |
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| Some Rules of the Game | |
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| Turn-On: A Woman's Natural Talent | |
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| The Importance of Enthusiasm | |
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| Take Your Swings | |
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| Confidence and Risk-Taking | |
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| Choosing the Right Partner | |
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| Pillow Talk Plus: Tips on Communication | |
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| Noticing and Paying Attention | |
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| What to Say | |
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| Listening to (and Interpreting) Womanese | |
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| Admit when It Hurts | |
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| What Not to Say | |
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| Lack of Communication | |
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| Appetite and Production | |
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| Seduction | |
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| Who Makes the Bed? Roles and Responsibilities in a Relationship | |
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| Nonreciprocity, or Don't Keep Score | |
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| Happiness | |
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| Recognizing Life's Perfection | |
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| Being Out of Agreement with Life Equals Insanity | |
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| Women Are More Comfortable with Grief | |
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| First, Love Thyself | |
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| Taking Each Other's Side | |
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| Dealing with Conflicts and Differences of Opinion | |
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| Who Does Make the Bed? | |
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| Managing the Emotional Climate of the Relationship | |
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| Money Matters | |
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| A Menu of Choices | |
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| Getting Married | |
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| Babies and Children | |
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| When Your Partner Is Sick | |
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| Flirtations and Affairs | |
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| Sexual Satisfaction | |
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| The Importance of the Clitoris | |
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| Getting Ready for Bed: Overcoming Resistance to Pleasure | |
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| The "In-and-Out" Fallacy, or Why Many Women Resist Sex | |
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| Teach Your Children Well | |
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| Issues from the Past | |
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| The Problem with Anger | |
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| Anger or Orgasm? | |
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| The Pursuit of Pleasure | |
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| Overcoming Resistances | |
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| Monkey See, Monkey Do | |
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| Drugs | |
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| Going to Bed: Sensuality and Integrity for Sexual Pleasure | |
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| Be Here Now | |
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| Starting from Flat | |
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| Deliberate Pleasure | |
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| Doing It in Exotic Locations | |
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| Integrity | |
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| Now that You're in Bed, What Next? | |
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| Orgasm Redefined | |
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| Fantasy | |
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| Her Side of the Bed: News for Women on Achieving (and Giving) Pleasure | |
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| The Choice of Pleasure | |
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| Trust Your Clitoris | |
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| Bear Training | |
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| Dogs Versus Bears | |
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| Reading a Man | |
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| Getting What You Want | |
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| Follow Your Pleasure | |
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| To Bed? | |
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| Genital Hygiene | |
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| Penis Size | |
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| His Side of the Bed: News for Men on Giving (and Achieving) Pleasure | |
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| Penis Politics | |
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| Express Your Pleasure | |
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| Penisometer | |
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| Become a Clitoral Expert | |
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| EMO for Men | |
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| How to Touch a Virgin | |
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| Cunnilingus | |
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| Blind-Spot Castration | |
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| Insatiable Women | |
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| Masturbation | |
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| Getting to Be a Hero and Other Benefits | |
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| Romance | |
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| Not to Bed? | |
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| Under the Covers: All You Both Need to Know for Great Sex | |
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| Men's Resistance in Bed | |
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| How to Avoid Making Your Partner Gag | |
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| Choosing to Be a Pleasure Victim | |
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| Know What You Are Doing | |
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| Trust Your Feelings | |
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| Enjoy What You Are Doing | |
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| Be Playful and Curious | |
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| Attention | |
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| Intention | |
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| Two-Way Pleasure | |
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| Slooowww Down | |
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| How to Touch an Oversensitive Clitoris | |
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| Good Night and Sweet Dreams | |
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| Bibliography | |
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| Index | |