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To Bed or Not to Bed What Men Want, What Women Want, How Great Sex Happens

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ISBN-10: 089793461X

ISBN-13: 9780897934619

Edition: 2006

Authors: Vera Bodansky, Steve Bodansky

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List price: $14.95
Copyright year: 2006
Publisher: Turner Publishing Company
Publication date: 12/19/2005
Binding: Paperback
Pages: 224
Size: 6.00" wide x 8.75" long x 0.75" tall
Weight: 0.836
Language: English

Steve Bodansky together with his wife Vera have been teachers of Sensuality for the past 30 years. Steve received a Masters in Molecular Biology at SUNY at Albany and a Doctorate at More University in Sensuality with an emphasis on female orgasm. He first studied and then taught at More U. thru 1992. For the past 21 years they have been coaching students as a couple and started writing books about optimum sensual pleasure. They have trained many people over the past 30 years with courses and personal training and continue to do so. A number of their former students have become sensual facilitators themselves. He can be reached at his email or at…    

Finding and Choosing the Right Bed and Partner
Hunting and Fishing
White-Knight Syndrome
The Eye of the Beholder
Some Rules of the Game
Turn-On: A Woman's Natural Talent
The Importance of Enthusiasm
Take Your Swings
Confidence and Risk-Taking
Choosing the Right Partner
Pillow Talk Plus: Tips on Communication
Noticing and Paying Attention
What to Say
Listening to (and Interpreting) Womanese
Admit when It Hurts
What Not to Say
Lack of Communication
Appetite and Production
Who Makes the Bed? Roles and Responsibilities in a Relationship
Nonreciprocity, or Don't Keep Score
Recognizing Life's Perfection
Being Out of Agreement with Life Equals Insanity
Women Are More Comfortable with Grief
First, Love Thyself
Taking Each Other's Side
Dealing with Conflicts and Differences of Opinion
Who Does Make the Bed?
Managing the Emotional Climate of the Relationship
Money Matters
A Menu of Choices
Getting Married
Babies and Children
When Your Partner Is Sick
Flirtations and Affairs
Sexual Satisfaction
The Importance of the Clitoris
Getting Ready for Bed: Overcoming Resistance to Pleasure
The "In-and-Out" Fallacy, or Why Many Women Resist Sex
Teach Your Children Well
Issues from the Past
The Problem with Anger
Anger or Orgasm?
The Pursuit of Pleasure
Overcoming Resistances
Monkey See, Monkey Do
Going to Bed: Sensuality and Integrity for Sexual Pleasure
Be Here Now
Starting from Flat
Deliberate Pleasure
Doing It in Exotic Locations
Now that You're in Bed, What Next?
Orgasm Redefined
Her Side of the Bed: News for Women on Achieving (and Giving) Pleasure
The Choice of Pleasure
Trust Your Clitoris
Bear Training
Dogs Versus Bears
Reading a Man
Getting What You Want
Follow Your Pleasure
To Bed?
Genital Hygiene
Penis Size
His Side of the Bed: News for Men on Giving (and Achieving) Pleasure
Penis Politics
Express Your Pleasure
Become a Clitoral Expert
EMO for Men
How to Touch a Virgin
Blind-Spot Castration
Insatiable Women
Getting to Be a Hero and Other Benefits
Not to Bed?
Under the Covers: All You Both Need to Know for Great Sex
Men's Resistance in Bed
How to Avoid Making Your Partner Gag
Choosing to Be a Pleasure Victim
Know What You Are Doing
Trust Your Feelings
Enjoy What You Are Doing
Be Playful and Curious
Two-Way Pleasure
Slooowww Down
How to Touch an Oversensitive Clitoris
Good Night and Sweet Dreams