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Foreword | |
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Introduction | |
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About This Book | |
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Conventions Used in This Book | |
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What You're Not to Read | |
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Foolish Assumptions | |
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How This Book Is Organized | |
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Understanding Autism | |
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Addressing Physical Needs | |
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Enhancing Learning and Social Skills | |
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Living with Autism as an Adult | |
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The Part of Tens | |
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Icons Used in This Book | |
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Where to Go from Here | |
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Understanding Autism | |
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Autism: The Big Picture | |
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What We Know - and Don't Know - about Autism | |
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Making the Diagnosis: Learning Your ASDs | |
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Understanding the diagnostic criteria | |
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Seeing the signs: Autism symptoms | |
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Understanding the Far-Reaching Impact of Autism | |
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How autism can affect the diagnosed individual | |
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How autism can affect families, schools, and communities | |
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How autism can affect caregivers | |
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Navigating the Sea of Interventions | |
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Using behavioral, developmental, and other educationally based interventions | |
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Implementing occupational and speech-language therapies | |
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Medicating symptoms that can accompany autism | |
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Applying biomedical and natural interventions | |
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If You Think You (Or People You Care for) Have Undiagnosed Autism | |
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From Classification to Treatment: Scanning the Autism Spectrum | |
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Surveying the Colors of Autism | |
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Severe (or "classic") autism | |
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PDD and PDD-NOS | |
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Asperger Syndrome | |
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Considering Conditions That Resemble Autism | |
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Childhood Disintegrative Disorder | |
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Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder | |
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Other possible diagnoses | |
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Understanding Why Early Treatment Matters More than Classification | |
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Attempting early identification and intervention | |
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Getting good medical care | |
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Enrolling in effective early programs | |
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Causes, Clusters, and Clues: Where Does Autism Come From? | |
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Considering the Rise in Diagnoses | |
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Exploring the Genetic Link | |
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Familial patterns | |
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Brain size and structure | |
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The brain-gut connection | |
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The testosterone link | |
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Examining Biomedical Theories | |
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What do allergies have to do with it? | |
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Heavy-metal poisoning hypotheses | |
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Autoimmune or virus-induced theories of causation | |
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The Backlash Against the Cure | |
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Getting a Diagnosis | |
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Tracking Your Child's Medical History | |
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Broaching the Possibility of Autism with a Doctor | |
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Preparing for the consultation | |
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Requesting a referral | |
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Consulting a Specialist | |
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Contacting a qualified specialist | |
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Sharing information | |
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Embarking on the assessment process | |
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Diagnosing related conditions | |
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Dealing with the Impact of the Diagnosis | |
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Coming to terms emotionally | |
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Taking action | |
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Avoiding scams | |
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Asperger Syndrome and Autism | |
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Discovering Where Asperger Syndrome Sits on the Autism Spectrum | |
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Examining common characteristics of Asperger's | |
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Diagnosing Asperger Syndrome | |
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Examining typical nondiagnostic personality traits of Asperger Syndrome | |
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Helping People with Asperger Syndrome Socialize | |
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Finding the hidden curriculum | |
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Handling idioms and figures of speech | |
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Dealing with the Emotions Triggered by Asperger Syndrome | |
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Avoiding the rage cycle | |
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Working through frustration | |
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Using emotion thermometers to gauge emotional states | |
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Recognizing Bullying and Its Emotional Repercussions | |
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Signs of bullying | |
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Taming the bullies | |
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Transitioning to Adulthood | |
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Addressing Physical Needs | |
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Injecting Yourself with Knowledge about Autism Medication | |
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Considering Drug Therapy | |
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Looking at how medication can realistically help | |
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Educating yourself and pursuing drug therapy | |
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Using medication wisely | |
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Identifying Helpful Medications | |
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Beginning the process with a qualified doctor | |
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Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRIs) | |
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Atypical antipsychotic drugs | |
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Tricyclic drugs | |
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Antiepileptics (also known as anticonvulsants) | |
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Medications for challenging behaviors in severely affected people with autism | |
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Maximizing Safety When Vaccinating Your Child | |
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Considering your child's medical history | |
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Looking at an alternate vaccination schedule | |
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Improving Immunity and Boosting Biochemistry | |
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Taking a Look at the Balancing Act of the Immune System | |
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Exposing the Relationship between Autism and Immune Abnormalities | |
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Analyzing immune measurements in the blood | |
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Exploring gut problems | |
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Studying brain tissue | |
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Improving Immunity | |
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Focusing on first-line fundamentals | |
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Seeking out second-line strategies | |
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Tackling third-line therapies | |
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Biochemistry Begets Behavior: A New Way of Thinking | |
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Shedding light on the broken pathways | |
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Maximizing metabolism | |
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Getting the Lead (and Mercury) Out | |
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Why the autistic child? | |
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Testing for toxicity | |
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Chelating | |
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Optimizing Nutrition | |
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Tempering Your Expectations | |
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Considering Your Dietary Intervention Options | |
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Cleaning up your child's diet | |
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Going wheat and dairy free | |
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Supplementing your child's diet | |
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Implementing Your Plan | |
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Keeping a food and symptom diary | |
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Involving professionals | |
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Easing the transition | |
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Experimenting with specialized diets | |
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Eating on the road | |
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Enhancing Learning and Social Skills | |
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Choosing an Appropriate Behavioral, Developmental, or Educational Intervention | |
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Understanding What to Look for in the Alphabet Soup of Approaches | |
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Actions and behaviors that lead to success in all interventions | |
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Keys to success in educational interventions | |
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Exploring Popular Intervention Approaches | |
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Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA) | |
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Daily Life Therapy (DLT) | |
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Developmental Individual Difference Relation-Based Intervention (DIR) | |
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Miller Method | |
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Relationship Development Intervention (RDI) | |
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Treatment and Education of Autistic and Communication Handicapped Children (TEACCH) | |
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Social Communication Emotional Regulation Transactional Support Model (SCERTS) | |
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Deciding Which Method Is Best for Your Child | |
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Financing the At-Home Program of Your Choice | |
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Exploring your at-home options | |
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Obtaining government assistance | |
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Dealing with Learning and Sensory Differences | |
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Autistic Learning: Transferring Skills and Providing Structure | |
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Thinking conceptually and transferring concepts | |
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Incorporating routine into daily life | |
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Bridging the Communication Gap | |
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Developing sign language as a communication bridge | |
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Working toward functional communication | |
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Using assistive communication technology | |
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Enjoying music therapy | |
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"Retraining" the Brain through Neurotherapy | |
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Examining and implementing neurotherapy | |
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Reviewing a neurotherapy study | |
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Making Sense of Sensory Confusion | |
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Observing sensory integration challenges | |
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Using hippotherapy | |
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Working with speech-language pathologists | |
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Seeing through Irlen-branded lenses | |
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Handling Your Child's Sensory Issues | |
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The supermarket test | |
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The eyes have it | |
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The auditory-processing blues | |
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Socially unacceptable stimming | |
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Dealing with the most severe behaviors | |
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Finding a Learning Environment That Fits Your Child's Needs | |
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Inclusion: To Be or Not to Be? | |
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Recognizing an Effective Classroom | |
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Maintaining routine and predictability | |
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Learning through all the senses | |
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Evaluating the room itself | |
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Observing a Good Teacher | |
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Characteristics to look for in an educator | |
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Warning flags to avoid in an educator | |
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Developing Effective Accommodations | |
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Accommodations in action | |
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Addressing the fairness of accommodations | |
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Considering educational techniques for promoting inclusion | |
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Weighing Your Options when the Public School System Falls Short | |
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Exploring the world of home schooling | |
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Considering other educational options | |
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Understanding and Reducing Challenging Behaviors | |
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Getting to the core of the behavior | |
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Performing a Functional Behavioral Assessment (FBA) | |
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Legally Speaking: Making the Most of Your Child's Education | |
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Navigating the Legal and Education Systems | |
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Understanding what the law allows | |
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Keeping track of changes in the law | |
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Staying Involved with Your Child's Education | |
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Working within the system | |
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Supporting your child at home | |
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Acting Early with an Individualized Family Service Plan (IFSP) | |
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Specifying Special: Entering the Public School System | |
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Initiating an evaluation to establish eligibility | |
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Implementing an Individualized Education Program (IEP) | |
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Assessing Your Child's Progress | |
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Flexing Your Educational Rights When You Need To | |
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Fostering Healthy Relationships | |
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Recognizing the Social Challenges an Autistic Child Faces | |
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Understanding social norms | |
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Conversing and cooperating | |
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Supporting a child when verbal communication is minimal or nonexistent | |
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All in the Family | |
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Talking about autism with your kids | |
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Considering the challenges siblings face | |
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Including extended family | |
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Encouraging Your Child to Form Friendships | |
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Staging an emotional rescue | |
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Creating social stories and calling on Power Cards | |
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Making conversation | |
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Sparking interactive play | |
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Respecting differences | |
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Living With Autism as an Adult | |
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For Adults with Autism: Living Well after K-12 | |
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Discovering How to Live Interdependently | |
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Managing your daily life | |
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Deciding where to live | |
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For caregivers: Preparing your dependent to succeed from day one | |
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Out of the High-School Daze: Pursuing Higher Education | |
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Evaluating your educational options | |
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Getting the accommodations you need for higher education | |
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Practicing self-advocacy and disclosure | |
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Easing into higher education | |
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For caregivers: Helping your dependent realize his/her higher-education dreams | |
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Time to Nurture Your Bank Account: Finding (and Keeping) Employment | |
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Matching your skills and desires with job opportunities | |
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Working with a job coach | |
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Applying for and obtaining a position | |
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Maintaining your job | |
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Gracefully exiting your position | |
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Considering self-employment | |
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For caregivers: Helping a dependent find employment | |
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An Advocate Off the Ol' Block: Getting Involved with Your Community | |
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Becoming a part of your community | |
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Looking within the autism community | |
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For caregivers: Encouraging an adult with autism to get involved | |
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For Adults with Autism: Fostering Friendships and Romantic Relationships | |
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Developing Friendly Relationships | |
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Understanding the circle of relationships | |
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Making first contact | |
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For caregivers: Helping your dependent establish friendships | |
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Recognizing (And Overcoming) the Challenges of Dating | |
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Asking for a date | |
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Behaving appropriately during the date | |
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Opting for full or no disclosure | |
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For caregivers: Moving on to dating | |
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Taking It to the Next Level with Sexual Behavior | |
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The most important part of boyfriend or girlfriend is "friend" | |
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Engaging in sexual activity | |
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For caregivers: Exploring sex education for people with autism | |
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Special-Needs Planning for the Future | |
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Avoiding Common Financial Mistakes | |
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Putting Plan to Paper: Getting Started | |
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Taking account of your child's prognosis | |
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Keeping eligibility for government services in mind | |
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Sizing up your estate | |
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Considering living arrangements and guardianship | |
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Involving an Attorney and/or Financial Planner | |
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Writing Your Will | |
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Setting up a special-needs trust | |
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Giving a morally obligated gift | |
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Designating guardianship | |
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The Part of Tens | |
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Ten Tactful Responses to Challenging Questions or Comments | |
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"What Special Talent Does He Have?" | |
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"Why Can't You Control Your Kid?" | |
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"Asperger Snausperger. He Looks Fine. He Just Needs a Better Attitude" | |
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"Who Did He Inherit It From?" | |
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"Why Should Your Child Get Special Treatment?" | |
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"Are You Kidnapping That Child?" | |
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The "Bad-Parent" Look | |
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"Is She Still in Her Own World?" | |
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"They Grow Out of It, Don't They?" | |
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"But She Doesn't Look Autistic..." | |
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Ten Things to Do after a Diagnosis | |
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Learn and Read as Much as Possible | |
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Network with Other Families | |
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Test, Test, Test | |
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Investigate Sources of Financial Aid | |
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Consider Major Lifestyle Changes | |
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Set Up an Educational/Behavioral Program in Your Home | |
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Begin Therapies | |
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Address Your Child's Diet and Nutrition | |
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Don't Give Up | |
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Get Out and Relax | |
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Where to Go for More Help | |
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Finding Other Helpful Texts | |
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Specializing in autism spectrum disorders | |
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Special-education publishers | |
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Research journals and magazines | |
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Surfing Informative Sites on the Web | |
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Connecting with advocacy organizations | |
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Perusing general-information sites | |
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Having some fun | |
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Gaining insight from people with an ASD | |
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Chatting about autism | |
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Exploring listserves | |
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Accessing World-Wide Autism Organizations and Resources | |
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Index | |