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Dancing Around the Volcano Freeing Our Erotic Lives: Decoding the Enigma of Gay Men and Sex

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ISBN-10: 0609801511

ISBN-13: 9780609801512

Edition: 1998

Authors: Guy Kettelhack

List price: $15.00
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Gay men have long been told that, regardless of their individual characters and desires, they should aspire to monogamous sexual and romantic relationships. Now Kettelhack offers a path to sexual liberation that embraces the paradoxes of sex.
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Book details

List price: $15.00
Copyright year: 1998
Publisher: Potter/Ten Speed/Harmony/Rodale
Publication date: 9/16/1997
Binding: Paperback
Pages: 196
Size: 5.25" wide x 8.25" long x 0.50" tall
Weight: 0.330
Language: English

Author's Note--and Acknowledgments
Paying Attention to Sex
Reclaiming the Beast
From Beast to Lover
From Lover to Human Being
The Uses of Sex
A New Look at Moral Responsibility
Boys Just Wanna Have Fun
Sex as Physical Discovery
Sex as Bungee Jump: Testing Limits
Sex as Employment: Hustlers and Johns
Sex as Intimacy: Becoming Vulnerable
The Ambiguity of the Jockstrap: Gay Men as Warriors and Shamans
Why We Scare Straight Men
The Warrior
The Shaman
Role-Playing as Revolution
Our Own Private Idahos: Reassessing Sexual Pathology, Compulsion, and Dysfunction
"Generative Asylums": Rethinking Pathology with Christopher Bollas
The Normality of Trauma, Symptoms as Self-Cure: Learning from Joyce McDougall
The Uses of Compulsion
The Uses of Impotence
Coda: Fetishes
"This is it, Kid: Sing"
The Challenge of Men Marrying Men
"To Make Us Feel Existence": A Practical Take on Spiritual Sex
Toward a Fruitcake Model of Self