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| Foreword | |
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| Acknowledgmentshellip | |
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| A Personal Word to Marriage Mentorshellip | |
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| A Personal Word to Pastorshellip | |
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| Introduction: The Sleeping Giant in the Churchhellip | |
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| The Big Picture On Marriage Mentoring | |
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| What Marriage Mentoring Is and Isn'thellip | |
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| Can Anyone Be a Marriage Mentor?hellip | |
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| Common Pitfalls of Beginning Marriage Mentorshellip | |
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| The Boomerang Effect of Marriage Mentoringhellip | |
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| The Marriage Mentoring Triad | |
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| Preparing: Mentoring Engaged and Newlywed Coupleshellip | |
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| Maximizing: Mentoring Couples from Good to Greathellip | |
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| Repairing: Mentoring Couples in Distresshellip | |
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| The Essential Skills For Marriage Mentoring | |
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| Building Rapporthellip | |
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| Walking in Another Couple's Shoeshellip | |
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| Working as a Teamhellip | |
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| Agreeing on Outcomeshellip | |
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| Asking Meaningful Questionshellip | |
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| Listening Aggressivelyhellip | |
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| Fielding Any Question They Throw at Youhellip | |
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| Telling Your Storieshellip | |
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| Praying Togetherhellip | |
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| Staying Sharp and Refreshedhellip | |
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| Being Yourself and Going with the Flowhellip | |
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| A Final Thoughthellip | |
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| Appendixes For Marriage Mentors | |
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| Common Subjects to Explore with Your Marriage Mentoreeshellip | |
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| What You Will Find for Marriage Mentors at www.RealRelationships.comhellip | |
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| Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts:A Tool for Mentoring Engaged and Newlywed Coupleshellip | |
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| Love Talk: A Tool for Mentoring Couples from Good to Greathellip | |
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| Your Time-Starved Marriage:A Tool for Mentoring Couples from Good to Greathellip | |
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| I Love You More: A Tool for Mentoring Couples in Distresshellip | |
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| How Does Evangelism Factor into Marriage Mentoring?hellip | |
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| Spotting Red Flags: When to Refer the Mentoree Couplehellip | |
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| Appendixes For Pastors And Marriage Mentor Leaders | |
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| What Every Pastor Needs to Know aboutStarting a Marriage Mentoring Ministryhellip | |
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| Volunteers and the Local Churchhellip | |
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| How to Use the Marriage Mentoring DVD Kit to Train Mentorshellip | |
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| Structure for a Marriage Mentor Ministryhellip | |
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| Marriage Mentor Application Formhellip | |
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| Marriage Mentoree Application Formhellip | |
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| Marriage Mentor Meeting Report Form for the Mentoree Couplehellip | |
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| Marriage Mentor Meeting Report Form for the Mentor Couplehellip | |
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| Two Samples of Marriage Preparation Policieshellip | |
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| Noteshellip | |
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| Indexhellip | |