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| Preface | |
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| The Challenge of Becoming Fully Human | |
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| The Struggle to Be Fully Alive | |
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| Being Spiritual, Being Human | |
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| Toxic Spirituality | |
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| Being a Good Christian Is Not Enough | |
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| The Glory of Being Fully Alive | |
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| The Value of an Accurate Diagnosis | |
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| Starting Where You Are | |
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| Our Restless Hearts | |
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| The Spirituality of Desire | |
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| Managing the Unquenchable Fire | |
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| Life-Enhancing Spirituality | |
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| What Is Spirituality? | |
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| Assessing Your Actual Spirituality | |
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| Understanding Our Humanity | |
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| What Makes Us Human? | |
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| Dust and Breath | |
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| Lightness and Mystery | |
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| The Spirituality of Being and Becoming | |
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| Becoming Fully Human | |
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| Choosing Life | |
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| The Path to Becoming Fully Human | |
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| Living with Spirit and Soul | |
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| Spirit as Fire in the Belly | |
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| Soul as the Womb of Experience | |
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| The Journeys of Spirit and Soul | |
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| Soulful Living | |
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| Longing and Belonging | |
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| Soulful Spirituality | |
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| Living Soulfully and Spiritually | |
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| The Spiritual Nature of the Human Journey | |
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| Stages of the Journey | |
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| The Original Self | |
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| From We to Me | |
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| Ego and Self | |
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| Egocentricity | |
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| The Crisis | |
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| Transformation | |
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| Reflecting on the Journey | |
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| Deep Religion and Healthy Spirituality | |
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| Religion and Spirituality | |
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| Deep Religion | |
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| Deep Religion and Soulful Spirituality | |
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| Loving Relationships | |
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| Faith and Belonging | |
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| Transcendent Meaning | |
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| Taking Stock | |
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| Embodied Spirituality | |
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| The Body Self | |
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| Primal Alienation | |
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| The Emotional Self | |
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| Our Sexual Self | |
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| Integrated Sexuality | |
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| Sexuality and Spirituality | |
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| The Religious Context of Sexuality | |
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| Being an Embodied Self | |
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| Grounding Spirituality in the Body | |
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| Spiritual Practices for the Human Journey | |
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| Awareness | |
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| Learning to Pay Attention | |
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| Mindfulness | |
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| The Present Moment | |
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| Breath as the Meeting of Body, Spirit, and Soul | |
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| The Gifts of Presence | |
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| Being Aware | |
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| Wonder | |
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| The Enchanted World | |
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| Wonder and Reverence | |
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| Befriending Mystery | |
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| The Transformation of the Ordinary | |
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| The Gifts of Wonder | |
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| Cultivating Wonder | |
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| Otherness | |
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| Encountering Otherness | |
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| Managing the Threat of the Other | |
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| Strangers, Monsters, and Gods | |
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| Tourists and Discoverers | |
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| Hospitality | |
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| Dialogue | |
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| Ultimate Otherness | |
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| Honoring Otherness | |
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| Reality | |
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| Seduced by Illusion | |
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| The Journey of Descent | |
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| Living with Authenticity | |
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| Listening to Our Life | |
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| Holding the Tensions | |
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| Embracing Reality | |
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| Presence | |
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| Presence and Absence | |
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| Stillness, Silence, and Solitude | |
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| Desire and Stillness | |
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| Meditation as Presence | |
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| Letting Go | |
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| The Soul's Aura | |
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| Practicing Soulful Presence | |
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| Surrender | |
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| The Illusion of Control | |
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| The Religious Core of Addiction | |
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| Inner Nonresistance | |
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| Daring to Welcome Life | |
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| Blessings and Misfortunes | |
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| Welcoming Prayer | |
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| The Spirituality of Letting Go | |
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| Choosing Surrender | |
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| Epilogue: Being at One | |
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| Acknowledgments | |
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| Notes | |
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| Index | |