Nasty People

Name: Nasty People
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ISBN: 9780071410229

ISBN-10: 0071410228

ISBN-13: 9780071410229

Edition: 2nd 2003 (Revised)

Authors: Jay Carter

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Do you know a nasty person? Someone who always puts you down in front of others? Now Jay Carter shows us how to put a stop once and for all to this cycle of overt and covert abuse without resorting to nasty tactics. With advice and real-life anecdotes, he explains how to handle a whole cast of nasty characters.

Book details

List price: $17.00
Edition: 2nd
Copyright year: 2003
Publisher: McGraw-Hill Education
Publication date: 5/26/2003
Binding: Paperback
Pages: 128
Size: 5.50" wide x 8.20" long x 0.40" tall
Weight: 0.396
Language: English



Acknowledgments


From a Student


From the Author


Overview



The Invalidator


Portrait of an Invalidator


Methods of the Invalidator


Uncertainty


Projection


Generalization


Judgment


Manipulation


Sneak Attack


Double Message


Cutting Communication


Building You Up, Cutting You Down


The Double Bind


The Bigger Picture


Self-Doubt


Narcissism (Everything Is About Me)


Chemical Imbalances


Personality Disorders


Invalidator: An Archetype


Most Obvious Personality


Less Obvious Personality


Least Obvious Personality


Identifying an Invalidator



The Victim


How Victims Are Compelled to Remain Victims


Creating a Victim


Right/Wrong Dysfunction


Two Dancers: An Example



The Cycle of Invalidation


To an Invalidator


Why You Are an Invalidator


How Do You Stop?


What Happens to Invalidators?


To the Invalidated Who Doesn't Invalidate



What Do We Do About It?


Invalidator Boss


Invalidator Spouse


Handling Invalidation


Confronting


Repeat That, Please


Tell the Whole Truth


Get Him or Her Alone


Mirror the Projection


What to Tell Children About Invalidators


Coping with Invalidation



To Invalidation: The Mechanism


To Invalidation


Bibliography