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| Acknowledgments | |
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| Introduction | |
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| Introduction | |
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| Raise Your Replacements with Principle | |
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| Why White Parents Should Care | |
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| Examine Your Reluctance to Form Interracial Friendships | |
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| Make Acquaintances Across Color Lines | |
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| Trace Your Family's History of Prejudice | |
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| Provide History That Fosters Pride | |
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| Get the Whole Story - His-Story, Her Story, Their Story and Our Story | |
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| Make History a Healing Course | |
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| Sensitize Your Parent-School Organization | |
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| Involve the Community | |
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| Begin the Lessons Early, Teach Responsibility | |
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| Teach Identity Through Comparison | |
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| Reflect Reality Through Mirrors, Art and Yourself | |
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| Select the Right Preschool for Your Child | |
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| Don't Pretend Discrimination Doesn't Exist | |
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| Rise to the Challenge at School | |
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| Forge Ahead Without Hindering Your Child | |
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| Tell the Truth About Slavery | |
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| Color Holidays, but Use All Shades of the Truth | |
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| Avoid Cultural Tourism | |
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| Be Careful About What Your Children Read | |
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| Think About How You Define Normal | |
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| Rule Out Discriminatory Remarks | |
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| Insist on Respect | |
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| Nurture and Spread Self-Esteem | |
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| Know Your Child's Role Models | |
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| Help Broaden Your Child's Social Circle | |
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| Expose Racial Stereotyping in Entertainment | |
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| Select a Diverse Middle School | |
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| Listen To and Discuss Your Teen's Concerns | |
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| Don't Use Racism as a Crutch | |
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| If Trouble's Brewing, Sound the Horn | |
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| Learn Compassion for All Colors | |
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| Encourage Community Service | |
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| Be Honest: Talk About Uncertainties | |
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| Beware of Your Nonverbal Messages | |
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| Speak Clearly and from the Heart | |
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| Challenge "Self-Segregation" | |
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| Face Your Teen's Prejudice | |
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| Epilogue: Don't Give Up. Keep the Faith | |
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| Bibliography | |
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| Index | |